Tuesday, June 3, 2008

Life in e Universal World

Since i have 20 minutes left b4 i go out, shall blog again, this time once again about life, nt my life but how i think e life of many are having now

Life is never an easy task, we always tend to expect too much from our lives and we always feel we are never up to the expectations of having a happy life. In fact, we feel inferior as compared to others whenever we see them happy and cheerful at times. We tend to think that we ourselves are never being able to be like them- happy, positive. However , actually these ppl whom u think they r happy but think that they are inferior as compared to u- the same way u think. We shld always think life simple u know ? Life isnt that complicated unless u make it complex. Make it and think it simple and u will be happy always! Dont limit ur joy only to urself in ur heart! Express it out! Spread ur joy to others through ur actions! Only then, wil others be happy too! Thats wad we should also do =) The world will then be a better place even if there are more and more probs in e world, this is becoz there has been a change in perspective in the way we look into lives =)

Another aspect is that we always try to avoid probs in life or procrastinate. Whenever we have probs in lives, we choose e path- avoid or delay e problems hopefully it will solve by itself? We think that this path w much be much easier and much less painful but We r wrong always time after time, we r wrong. In e end of the day, these probs will never be solved and by then, the seriousness of them will be amplified. U will find it harder to solve them, u may even be so stressed cos of this prob that u may do smth stupid? U never know, probs are meant to nurture u to a person of better calibre, higher maturity, and really grow to be a better person overall. So dont ever run away from ur probs for they are there for a reason- To make u a better person- by making u experience the hard way yea?

The last aspect is that we human beings always tend to have problems managing our feelings? In front of ppl, we are always keeping a strong front, saying we have no problems , we are alright . However, inside at home alone, actually, we are having a big problem in our lives. Are we scared of losing face? Are we too scared that ppl will mock at us? This is what i think is e reason to why we are always trying to hide our tangible feelings inside and trying to lie to others that we are alright. Yes, we should not let ppl worry for us by nt showing these feelings out, but we should also not hide these feelings inside us! We should try to get rid of these negative feelings, nt by inflicting pain on urself but seeking other ways to do it. Eg, find someone close to u to confide in? Or If this feeling is hatred, try to forgive and forget. If others can do it , y cant u! Learn to be able to fa de xia =) Dont make ur life worse by having these feelings! If is jealousy, y wuld u be jealous? Everyone is unique in their own ways. Care abt ur own life and not others! Does jealousy make u better? It makes ur worse! These feelings must not be pondering u forever, it will affect ur mood ur life and e ppl ard u! Learn to manage ur feelings and try to be more sensitive to urself. Which part of ur personality is not good to u? Change it, move on w ur everydae life with a better perspective to life and also as a better person. Improve urself everyday in character wise!

Shall stop here, 5 mins left
Cya!
Ziyan

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